Today, I just want to say “Thank you world!”
You see, in the last 7 days I have had not just one, not just two, but THREE items on my bucket list become real! So, yes, this is going to be a LONG post.
I am still on cloud nine, so let me catch my breath and recap what these bucket list items are.
- I started helping people by giving them insights into their spiritual journey, and life in general. This has been a dream of mine for decades. The first step was to teach a series of classes on “Evolving from Religion to Spirituality: the Journey of the Soul,” which was an outstanding success! My first class was on Dec 9th – which is now a highlighted date in my journal. To think I can do something based on my knowledge, skills, and interests and help others at the same time is my definition of utopia. I started an inspirational blog (Of Mind and Spirit, ), am working on future classes in 2012, and have been offered an opportunity to teach my class at Duke! The students seem to enjoy the class and the insights, and I certainly am having a blast teaching it!!
It was as if all those years being in over 22 religions (yes, you read that right), all that study, time in Toastmasters, prayer, etc. came together in one magical moment. I am getting to know many new and wonderful people as part of this experience. Even better, I have been blessed with being gainfully employed at a job with flexible hours which enables me to teach. I am VERY thankful for that, though sometimes it is hard juggling a pretty much full time job, teaching, and a family. But right now, life is truly good.
My coach said this is a ‘set point’ for me – a bar that sets a level of success that I always can refer to. I guess that is how Donald Trump feels even when he is dirt broke, like a lot of Americans. He knows he has made billions in the past, and he knows that he can do it again. While I don’t have that kind of set point (yet), it is truly a marvelous feeling. I have gotten quite a lot of people telling me I should be writing a (or maybe a few) books on what I am teaching, and that is definitely in the plans for the future.. For now, I am focusing on giving the best classes I can to my students to give them as many powerful insights that I can to help them on their journey. That’s a pretty cool feeling! - As many of you know, I have been playing guitar for almost (gasp!) 50 years! As most artists, I have been searching for the elusive “perfect” guitar for me. I have lost track of the countless guitars I have tried, bought, modified, all with some – though limited- success. The week before teaching my first class I found “it.” THE perfect guitar for me. It was at a local music store. I didn’t have the money to get it, so I worked some extra hours to have enough to purchase it. The day after teaching my first class, I had JUST enough to get the guitar! I rushed to the store and picked it up – it was as if it was just waiting for me to grab it! I still can’t believe that I have it in my possession. If you play any instrument at all, then you know how personal an instrument is. And if you know anything about B.B. King, I just may have found my “Lucille.” Totally freaking awesome! Next stop is to form/join a band in 2012!
- I always wanted to do SOMETHING with film or stage. Though my daughter has been in plays since the age of 3, somehow there never was an opportunity that got me interested to help behind the scenes. Not sure why, but anyhow this weekend (yup, that starts today), she is in a play at Duke theater and the person who ran the lights couldn’t do it! So, yes, yours truly will be working the lights at the production of the Nutcracker and Alice in Wonderland this weekend. When it is time to turn down the house lights, that will be me doing it. Honestly, how cool is that?
So much has happened in so short a time (7 days!), I am almost speechless. 9 months ago I lost my job, my house and wasn’t sure what was going to happen to me. And now all of this. It really is almost overwhelming.
When look back at all of this, I realize there were certain techniques I used that I believe helped accomplish the above. I no longer believe in coincidences. People have told me that I should be writing a book on how I accomplished of this as well. Mebbe. But I did want to share some ‘big bullets’ on what I believe allowed all of the above to happen.
- Have faith that everything WILL turn out for the best.. and even better than you can hope. This is extremely hard when things seem to be going the worst in your life, but I do feel this attitude –especially during dark times – is a catalyst for major change.
- Let go of any preconceived expectations of outcomes. I focused on the process, not the results. This allowed me to enjoy what I was doing , and what happened as a result was not that important. That change in perspective had an incredible impact for me.
- Take action. This was actually the hardest part for me. Dreaming, vision board, affirmative prayers, meditation, reading, thinking.. all of that means nothing (in my humble opinion) unless you take any action. (that’s why I really dislike “The secret”. I really think they missed some real critical components to getting what you want in life.. But I digress). Actually putting myself “out there” was one of the hardest things I have ever done. What I found out is that there are a LOT of people in the world who really enjoy helping others achieve their goals! I was FLOORED at all the people that helped me get these classes started! If you want to believe that life is ‘out to get you,” then that is also what you will find. For me, I’d rather believe that life is ‘out to help you” and I find that true as well. Matter of perspective.
For many this is a time of year that is a time of reflection. I will be adding another post before the new year to recap all the incredible things that have happened in the last 12 months. For now, I would like to say that looking back I can see the thousands of people that have influenced my life that all helped –albeit in different and sometimes subtle ways – me where I am today. I have reconnected with old friends (hi, Bill!), and made too many new ones to count. But if you have known me (or even just met me once), then you are part of the growing family of people that I am grateful for coming into my life.
Sorry for the long winded note, but I wanted to share the truly good news as to what has been happening to me. And maybe, just maybe, this note can spark a kindle of hope in your heart if you are where I was 9 months ago.
And now, it’s showtime!!
Peace, Love and Light!
Steve